The Day You Were born Darius

The Story of Darius' Birthday
March 12, 2009

This story began the day before Darius' birthday.
Wednesday, March 11, 2009, was supposed to be a normal day. Lex and I 
had plans to teach a dance at mutual for the Regional youth Dance Festival.
Those plans all changed during my 39 week doctor appointment.
After a blood pressure reading of 148/92 Dr. Lowder advised
that I be induced and that Darius be born the very next day.
At that moment I felt many emotions all at the same time. Deep down I felt relief 
that I knew exactly when my baby would be born and that all the 
discomforts of pregnancy would be over, but I also felt very upset because 
I wanted to try and have my baby without an epidural, and I knew if I was induced 
that probably wouldn't happen because petocin contractions are very painful. 
I told Dr. Lowder I didn't want to be induced, but he explained why it was important 
Darius be born right away. While the nurse scheduled my induction at the front desk
I did my best to hold back my tears. I could tell that Lex noticed this. As we walked
out of the hospital I let go of all the tears. Lex put his arm around my shoulders
and we walked to the car. He reminded me that everything would be okay and
I knew he was right. I wasn't going to let this ruin Darius' special day!
By doctor's orders, NO DANCING!
Well I did my best to take it easy but just couldn't resist dancing a little.  ;-)
That evening I received a Priesthood blessing from Lex.
Afterward I felt comforted and strengthened for the momentous day to come.

6AM was an early start to the day, even for such a wonderful event.
From check-in to delivery labor moved quickly. (What an understatement!)
Petocin was added to my IV and made contractions and dilation
move swiftly and steadily. Dr. Lowder broke my water at 7:15AM.
It didn't take me long to realize I really wanted some
relief from the contractions which were fast and strong coming,
so 45 minutes later an epidural was in place and beginning to work.

On his own time Darius decided when he was ready to be born
and when he had his mind made up he didn't waste a moment getting out.
Dilation from 5 to 9 1/2 cm took place in just FIFTEEN minutes
(from 9AM to 9:15AM). Is that a record? It is in my book!
Suddenly becoming aware of the fast pace at which he was moving,
I called my mom (Mamaw) at 9:15AM and said
"If you don't hurry you're going to miss it".
It only took her eleven minutes to get to the hospital,
but she was two minutes too late. After six MINUTES of pushing
I held the most beautiful treasure in my arms.
Lex and I were so overjoyed to hear him cry
and feel him in our arms for the first time.

This glorious baby was soon to be named Darius C Case.
Born at 9:24AM. 7lbs 9oz., 20 3/4 in. long.


Family came to meet our new bundle later that afternoon.
Grandparents, aunts and uncles were so excited to see
what Cyrus first reaction would be.

After the nurse brought Darius back from his routine well check,
Lex and I exclaimed to Cyrus "Your baby brother Darius is here!
He was born today". Cyrus, having just woken up,
was calm and quiet and quickly replied
"I didn't want him to come today".

However as soon as he caught a glance of his little brother,
he walked over to the hospital bed and said "I want to hold him".
From that moment on he has been a protector
and best friend to his little brother Darius.

Dear Darius,
It was so awesome to hold your perfect, beautiful body,
feel your warm joyful Spirit,
and be able to look at you lovingly for the first time.
Your daddy, brother and I couldn't help falling in love with you
the very moment we set eyes on you.
We love you so much and we're so happy you came into our lives.
Thank heaven for March 12, 2009
and thank Heavenly Father for you.